A happy marriage

A few days away from my wedding, and I found this article on labeling theory and marriage: Are you working away at a hard marriage?

The key part: "If MARRIAGE has an identity of being difficult, that is what it tends to be, simply because that is how we already see it."

 Paul Newmann & Joanne Woodward, also married in January, via Snippet and Ink

So the secret to a happy marriage may be: view your marriage as happy. And it will be. 

A worthwhile experiment either way.